So, you answered "yes" to your chosen one, and now you face a long and rather difficult period of preparation for the wedding. And it may well be complicated by the fact that conflicts will begin in the family, which are almost impossible to predict in advance, and which seem to arise from scratch.
Keep in mind that at this stage, in many ways, a model is being laid for the relationships that your couple (and later your family) will have with relatives on both sides. Therefore, it depends on how you get out of these situations, whether the relationship will work out.
Most often, conflicts arise between the future mother–in-law or mother-in-law, on the one hand, and the daughter-in-law, on the other. And the basis of these disagreements is the desire of mothers to realize their own desires, to organize the wedding of their son or daughter according to the scenario that they consider optimal.
Conflicts between the father of the bride and the groom are also quite frequent, since it is often difficult for the father to accept the fact that he is no longer the main man in his daughter's life.
In both cases, it is extremely important to distinguish whether the conflict is caused by the value system or the taste system of the parents. In the latter case, parents will try to impose on you, say, the style of outfits or the style of decoration of the celebration. But if the area of values is affected, most likely, they will insist on the presence of certain guests at the wedding from among their dear and important friends or relatives. In this case, you will most likely have to meet them halfway, since it will be about family values.
In any case, try to avoid a quarrel, do not go into conflict. Look for ways to negotiate with everyone: your firm "no" will be enough for someone, and for someone you will have to look for a convincing explanation of why you are in no hurry to agree with his proposal. The main thing is to watch your own intonations and choose your words – the wedding will take place in one day, and resentment can remain for life.
What is the right way to respond to advice that you are not satisfied with? First of all, sincerely thank the one who took part in your concerns, even if uninvited. Promise to think about and consider the proposed option, and try to refuse in a reasoned manner, without hurting other people's feelings.
The main thing is that in such matters, the bride and groom should take the same position and support each other. In this case, relatives will quickly realize that you have a well-thought-out scheme of action, and will stop imposing their opinions. Mostbet BD https://mostbet-bangladesh.biz – Online Casino, Sports Betting in Bangladesh.
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